Seeking the Good Life

The Idle Bee


July 2019

My Birthday

Hmmm, It is now over 55 Years since I took my first breath. Once again my Family rallied round to remind me of the continual progress of time, and therefore my inevitably approaching demise. They do this in the usual manner by sending me a selection of rather fine gifts and birthday cards. There must be something more important than simply the fact I have survived another full circumnavigation of the earths orbit around the sun but perhaps not!

Procrastination is the thief of time


I have always believed that it takes effort to produce results. How you choose to measure those results depends on your individual mindset. There are some who define success on the basis of how many Pounds, Dollars, Yen, Rupees or indeed any currency you choose to name, you have in your bank account. This misses out on some of the forgotten truths of the 21st century. Real success is measured in: the number of real friends that you have (the ones who would drop everything if you needed help), in the success of your children, in the success of your ventures (business or other), or even in the recognition of the output from your creativity.
Today I returned to my place of work having spent nearly six months battling the demons in my head that relentlessly convinced me that I was a failure and a fraud. A mixture of mind altering medication prescribed by my GP and half a dozen sessions with a clinical psychologist had finally allowed me to return to my place of work. My fears and anxiety were completely obliterated by a spontaneous hug from a surgical colleague, a smile and a hug from the critical care receptionist and being grabbed and welcomed back by one of the critical sisters. Simple things mean a lot. I can now see myself returning to work with these delightful people at least until we sell our house and move to our next project.
Mental health is really important,
Mind is a charity devoted to improving and helping people with mental health issues. Mental illness can affect any one of us and indeed affects one in four of us at some stage during our life.
The exercise campaign continues with a combination of rapid walking, circuit training and kettlercise sessions,

Back from Holiday

I have just returned after staying in Fenay Cottage for a week with M and Dot. Dot simply loves the beach. Despite her only being 14 weeks old she loves to run around playing chase with any dog she meets. Robin Hoods Bay really is the best place in the world for dogs, with beach and hillside walks and loads of dog friendly cafes and pubs.
We were pleasantly spoilt by a visit from our daughter and her chocolate Labrador puppy called Rolo. Dot and Rolo ended up happily tired having run and played chase on the beach, been taken for walks and fussed over by lots of nice folk.

Continuing the Fun and Fitness M and I managed long beach walks every day and shorter beach combing / Dot training walks each morning. Dot is getting better and better at walking on a lead, and is learning to return quickly when called. She really hasn’t got a clue when it comes to fetch type games, she will quickly and efficiently chase a tennis ball down and stop it, she then leaves it where she stopped it and returns directly to us. I’m certain M has been secretly training her to do this simply to increase my exercise, in that I seem to be walking further as a result. Overall this has been a nicely active holiday with lots of walking and lots of fun.

Robin Hoods Bay is blessed with a number of cafes and restaurants including our particular favourites of
The Bramblewick, and The Wayfarer. Both establishments specialise in fresh seasonal sea food dishes, with a good range of meat and vegetarian alternatives. We have never had anything but excellent food and good service at either place. They have very individual styles and we absolutely love the differences in atmosphere between the restaurants. If you are planning a trip to Robin Hoods bay then plan and book as both establishments fill up really quickly.